Need Advice!
HELP ladies.... no one I know "in real life" has had any advice that has worked thus far. I'm turning to you now in hopes that someone out there knows the trick.
The "Situation": Kyah has always been a wonderful sleeper. We would just lay him down and he would go to sleep. Really... it was that simple. He would sleep through the night (12+ hours) no questions asked. These last 2 weeks have been a whole different ball game. Although Kyah has been able to stand up, walk along the furniture, crawl...etc, he just figured out that he could do this in his crib as well. Talk about a turn of events at bedtime.
When I lay him down he wiggles out of his blankets, crawls around, stands up and eventually screams {and yes, he knows how to lay back down}. I have no idea who this new child is, but I would gladly take my pervious Kyah Baby back.
What I have tried {and keep in mind that he is tired... and needs to sleep. I'm not laying him down for kicks and giggles}:
- he has always slept with a sound machine (white noise) with the volume up loud. This has not changed nor will it.
- we have tried tightly swaddling him (arms included) in his blanket. This worked for the first few nights. He has since figured out how to maneuver out of it.
- I have let him scream for hours in hopes that he would get tired and fall asleep. Nothing. I would check on him after about 40 minutes and lay him back down. I dis NOT get him out of the crib.
- Since birth we have followed the Baby Wise Method and it has been great. It just doesn't have tips for the standing... That's my only concern right now... that darn standing.
- we have played soft lullabies next to his crib. He is in a phase that any music he hears is "dance music" and he thinks that there's a party going on.
- lastly, I have rocked him until he is woosy and his eyes are rolling. I lay him down and all is well. He falls right to sleep, no questions ask. This has worked every time (except for maybe twice).
What I really want is a child that can lay down and go to sleep. I don't always have access to a rocking chair. I would love for him to be able to self soothe again. This is where I need you!
What would you do?
How do you get them to stay laying down? {is that possible}, how many times should you go lay them back down? Do you swaddle? Should I just keep rocking him? Are there any other tricks out there that I am missing out on? Is this standing up just a phase? If so.. how long did it last?
I know that I am not the only one that has a child that does this. {though sometimes It feels like I am}.
NOTE: I tried something new last night and it worked great. We took our bath, got into a jammies, read a book, played for about 10 minutes to let out that "bath" energy. I bundled him up with his blanket, gave him a bottle and he was out like a light just as soon as I put him in the crib. I have high hopes that this will work again, but in case it does not, any advice you have is greatly appreciated!
And of course... here he is in all of his morning glory. He has recently learned to eat with a spoon. As you can see.. it's still a tiny bit of a messy adventure.
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